16 October 2019

The One Where a Stranger Slaps Me

Oy.

I had a difficult night - I slept, but had weird/horrific/strange dreams that kept waking me up, sometimes for a while until my heart and emotions settled down.  This morning when the alarm started, I got up and knew that it was gonna be a day that needed help.  Even my morning cup of tea didn't quite cut it.  So I knew it was time to be drastic, and stop to get a cup of coffee.  I don't drink much coffee, other than the occasional latte, but it was a morning that called for serious measures.

There's a Wawa on my way to work, and they are having a $1.00 cup of coffee, any size deal going on.  I figured, OK that works.  I went to the island where the cups, lids, creamers, etc. were to get started.  Suddenly a woman loudly said, "Excuse me young lady, you stepped on my handbag."  She said it to me.  I looked where she was pointing on the floor (who puts their handbag on the floor at the Wawa coffee counter???!!!), and ... there was no handbag.  At all.  So I said, "I don't even see a handbag," and she pointed, repeated what she said, and then said, "Do you plan to apologize to me, you white b*tch?" and I said, "I apologize that I don't even see a handbag in the first place."  And I said it nicely, I really did.

That was when she slapped me.  And then threw an empty creamer carton at me.  The security guard come over and told her she would need to leave, and she said he was racist (he was black for the record), and that I was a racist.  As he was escorting her out, one of the other employees walked by.  She stopped the guard, tapped the employee on the arm, and said in a manner where I expected sugar cubes to fall out of her mouth, "Excuse me, do you have any more French vanilla creamer?"

Long story short, I didn't even get charged the dollar for my coffee.  But even writing this, I realize I'm still stunned.  I have pretty decent radar that helps me avoid the crazy people most of the time.  This woman was dressed as if she was on her way to an office, certainly better put together than I was this a.m.  So I don't know what her story is/was.  But let's just say it has not been my best morning.

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In any event, I was planning to join Kat and others in Unraveled Wednesday today, so here goes.

There was fortunately no unravelling this week (other than a close call emotionally, see above).  I managed to finish both my cross-stitch project, and the Christmas socks I was knitting for my great-nephew Oden.  Tonight I am hoping to get started on the pair I'm making for his sister.  I am enjoying these knits, not just because they are quick, but also because the colors are so cheery, that it's hard to think of it as anything but a happy project.

Reading-wise, The Tim has been reading this book aloud (I'm not sure why he is on a reading aloud kick, but I'm enjoying it), and I recently finished another book I was reading.  Today at lunchtime, I plan to start this book:


I've heard good things about it, and have wanted to read it but never got around to it before, so hopefully I can get a good start.  

Then, a book I've been wanting to read for a while just became available to me at the library:


A couple of years ago, I came across the documentary version of this on PBS one evening when I was switching channels, and it was really interesting.  It's been difficult to find the book, but I finally saw that one of the other branches had it, and put in a hold request.  So this will be my book to read at home, and I can't wait!

Here's hoping the rest of the day is calmer than the start was - have a good one!

14 comments:

Kym said...

Oh. My. I'm so sorry you had to begin your day with such a disturbing experience. I wish you lovely things for the rest of the day. XO

AsKatKnits said...

Oh my. I am sitting here in horror for you, and worry, and a very good case of being outrageously upset. I wish that I was MUCH closer so that I could share my upset with you and frustration at the lack of, well, sanity that exists in our world today.

I am hoping you will share images of your finished stitching projects! And, I hope you LOVE Autumn - I know I did. Such brilliant (and timely) writing!

Sending you all the love my friend.

Vera said...

OMG - what a morning! I pretty much steer clear of Wawa anyway...but just one more reason to avoid it. LOL

Wanderingcatstudio said...

Holy crap! I'd still be in shock too. She definitely has some issues. I'm so sorry that happened. It's funny how our intuition can tell us how (more or less) the day will pan out.
I hope everything is better from here on out!

Araignee said...

Goodness gracious! What a nightmare.
We had something like that happen to us once in a 7/11. The Mister almost had to resort to shoving the guy who for some reason wanted to fight in the parking lot. Crazy people seem to love convenience stores. Daughter has had so many issues in them that she won't even go in one anymore. Thank goodness yours had security.

KSD said...

Wow. WOW. Are you okay now? What can I do?

Bonny said...

I don't even know what to say. It's clear that the slapper had some sort of crazy going on, but that doesn't lessen in any way the shock and upset you must felt at being slapped. I hope that the upcoming days have a lot less craziness and violence and that you gain the ability to see invisible handbags that aren't there.

Shirley said...

What an awful experience! I went back and read that paragraph several times because I just could not imagine that happening or what I would do if it had happened to me. I am sorry that you had such an experience and hope your day improves significantly. Sending warm thoughts and hugs.

Nance said...

I cannot even imagine! I'm sorry that happened, Bridget. How awful for you. Good heavens.

Looking forward to hearing your reviews on those books.

Kim in Oregon said...

Oh my gosh. What an awful way to start the day. I guess that will put you off coffee for a while. :-)

Jane said...

Oy is putting it mildly. I am sorry you had such an upsetting morning. Goodness! I hope tomorrow is a better day.

Lilly's Mom said...

Oh my goodness! How scary was that! What is wrong with people today? I had to Google Wawa as we don't have them here on the West Coast. But, we do have lots of crazy people. Times have surely changed now days. Thank goodness for the security guard and that you are ok. I hope rest of your week goes well. Be careful dear Bridget.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. Sometimes our "crazy" radar is off and in times like that we're just lucky to get out alive. Breathe deep and know that you are a good person. That woman obviously needed help and let's hope she gets it. Hugs to you.

karen said...

egad! you have every right to be rattled. I try to avoid crazy people too. Who knows what her problem was, she sounds unstable.